Friday 22nd September 2006time sure does fly aye..
gonna be a nice & long weekend! =)
marty's social night tingy was alright
da girls seated at my table mostly spoke
chinese..kept quiet i did. hurr
oh wells, that night also made me
realise how humans proved
Charles Cooley's "looking glass self"
& Synder's "self-fulfilling stereotypes"
theories right...
let me fill youCharles Cooley's "looking glass self"1- We
imagine how we appear to those
around us
2- We
interpret others' reactions
toward us
3- We
develop a self-concept
Synder's "self-fulfilling stereotypes"1- We
judge the person on how they look
or wat we heard about them
2- We fit them into preexisting stereotypes
&
expect the person to act in certain
ways
3- We act towards the person according to
our expectations.
4- The person gets ideas of how we
perceive him/her by the way we act
5- The behaviour of the person changes
to
match our expectations, thus
confirming the stereotype!
i believe that we're all victims of
these theories! might sound stupid,
but it really is true!
anyways...
the children in my class may be
a hand full at times, but when
they're not, they're way beyond
cute in da kuku way...
ask super 'doh' questions!
girl : "Ms Lim are you chinese
or Malay?"
doesnt my surname say it all?
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